当皮肤白白的嘉嘉出现在我面前时,小手就只是紧紧抓住外婆的手不放松。每次我尝试性地前进一步,她马上就会后退,始终与我保持一定的距离,就仿佛我的靠近会给她带来不安似的。这是一位特别的孩子,她的戒备心理很强,不愿意与我接触、交流。而当班级里的保育员阿姨出现时,就成了嘉嘉离开外婆时的替代,她就如同保育员婆婆的小尾巴,始终不放弃。这样的孩子,我该如何走近她?这是我迫切需要解决的问题,因为如果无法与她 When the white Jiajia appeared in front of me, the little hand just tightly grasp the grandmother’s hands do not relax. Each time I try to go one step further, she will immediately go back and always keep a certain distance from me, as if my proximity will bring her uneasy. This is a special child, she was mentally alert, do not want to contact with me, exchange. When a nurse aunt appeared in the class, she became an alternative to Jiajia when she left her grandmother. She was like a small tail of a nursing nurse and never gave up. How can I approach her with such a child? This is a problem that I urgently need to solve because if I can not get along with her