“海纳百川”——水的胸怀是宽阔的;“水滴石穿”——水的精神是坚毅的;“上善若水”——水能洗涤污垢,能自甘居于低处而怡然。这多像女人:宽容、坚韧,又默默奉献。由不得贾宝玉这样地爱怜女人,由不得他说女儿是水做的骨肉。水做的骨肉,这是何等高的评价,它的晶莹、淡泊都体现了普通劳动妇女的美德。 “Hai Na Bai Chuan” - the mind of water is broad; “water drop stone wear” - the spirit of water is perseverance; “the good if the water” - the water can wash the dirt, can be willing to live in the low and comfortable. This is more like a woman: tolerance, tenacity, and silent dedication. The love of pity for the woman was not allowed by Jia Baoyu, and it was forbidden for him to say that the daughter was made of water. What is the high appraisal of the flesh of water, its crystal clearness and indifferentness all reflect the virtues of ordinary working women.