你不但要学会抗争,更应学会妥协; 你不但应向往崇高,更应适应平凡; 你不但应扎扎实实地搞事业,也应扎扎实实地过日子——包括娶妻生子、养家糊口; 你可以嫉大恶如仇,但无妨一定程度地容忍小恶; 你可以高雅自命,但应心平气和地与市俗为邻; 你应珍视你直爽的性格,但你同时应学会与不喜欢直爽 Not only should you learn to fight, you should learn to compromise. You should not only aspire to loftiness but also adapt to commonplaceness. You should not only engage in a solid career, but also live a solid life - including getting married and having children, You can elegance, but should be calm and close to the community; you should cherish your straightforward character, but you should also learn and do not like straightforward