“不会克制自己的欲望已经成为城市孩子的通病。美国心理学家曾经做过一个“延迟满足”的心理试验,发现能够“延迟满足”的学生学习成绩比那些熬不住的学生平均高出20分。参加工作以后,他们从来不在困难面前低头,总是能走出困境获得成功。延迟满足就是我们平常所说的“忍耐”。 “Failure to control one’s own desires has become a common problem for urban kids, and U.S. psychologists have done a” delayed satisfaction “psychological test and found that student achievement scores that” can delay gratification “are higher on average than those who can not afford it 20 points.After joining the work, they never bow before the difficulty, always be able to get out of the woods to succeed.Latency is what we usually call ”patience."