人们的交际活动，常会因种种原因发生障碍，从而使正常的交际陷入僵局。如果交际双方各执己见，便会在僵持中失去时机，影响交际质量。从交际者主观愿望看，如果想取得交际成功，达到某种共识，就必须注意交际关系的协调工作。有了协调，便会在僵局中达到相互沟通，化复杂... People’s communication activities, often due to various obstacles, so that the normal communication deadlock. If both parties are dishonest, they will lose their chance in stalemate and affect the quality of communication. From the subjective desire of communicators, if we want to achieve success in communication and achieve some consensus, we must pay attention to the coordination of communicative relations. With coordination, we can achieve mutual communication and complexity in the stalemate.