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有这样一个家长,在教育上采取的是孩子缺什么,补什么的策略(以为学习跟补充人体维生素一样),最多的时候,竟然请了所有课程的家教。目前在辅导孩子教育上的钱不下十万了。孩子现在读初一,成绩听说是倒数五名以内。看来家长平时忙于生意,钱赚了不少,但对于孩子的教育问题,却认识不够。家长找到我时,谈话很直接:“我听说你教孩子很有一套,只要让孩子学习好,收多少钱都不是问题。”我和这个家长解释:“孩子要从根子上解决问题,比如,孩子现在对学习是一个什么样的态度,心理上对学习的抵触度到底有多大?在方法上有没有持续改进的地方……”家长说:“你也别跟我说这些大道理,就告诉我,通过你的方法,能不能让我孩子学习好起来?”“不能!”我非常肯定地回答。
There is such a parent, education is taken by the children what to do, what to make up the strategy (that learning to supplement the body with the same vitamin), most of the time, actually invited all the tutoring classes. At present there is no shortage of money in counseling children’s education. Children are now reading the first grade, I heard that the countdown is less than five. It seems that parents are usually busy with business and earn a lot of money. However, they do not know enough about their children’s education. When parents find me, the conversation is straightforward: “I’ve heard that you teach kids a lot and that it is not a problem for kids to learn well and how much they charge. ” I explained to this parent: “The child is to be resolved from the ground up Questions like, for example, what kind of attitude does a child have now to learn? How much psychological conflict with learning? There is no way to improve on the method ... ”“ Parents say: ”Do not tell me These grand principles tell me, by your method, can you let my child learn better? “” Can not! "I am very sure to answer.