先讲一个小故事。故事的主角是创办了南开大学和南开女中的张伯苓先生。某一年,南开女中举行毕业典礼。作为校长,先生上台,给毕业生们讲话。话不长,也简单:“你们将来结婚后,要相夫教子,要襄助丈夫一心为公、一心为国,一定不要劝自己的丈夫升官发财。因为,男人升官发财之后,第一件事情就 Tell a little story The protagonist of the story was founded by Nankai University and Nankai female Mr. Zhang Boling. One year, Nankai girls held a graduation ceremony. As principal, Mr. came to power and addressed graduates. Not long after, but also simple: ”After you get married in the future, want to be a godfather, to help her husband wholeheartedly for the public, one for the country, we must not persuade her husband to get rich .Because, after men get rich, the first thing on