【案例】紧闭的心扉男生小语,18岁,复读班学生。开学已经几个月了,他作业做不完,上课经常迟到,总是低头做自己的题目,不抬头听课。我和小语第一次谈话时,他说是自愿来复习的,可是又对结果无所谓。我好言相劝,可不管我讲什么,他都会用很平静的语气反驳我,一副看透世事的样子。后来,我发现他在校期间用手机研究彩票,还理直气壮地和我顶嘴,说上学也可以挣钱,不觉得自己有什么错。只有沟通才有可能产生影响,可是我现在不知道怎 [Case] ​​boys closed their hearts small language, 18 years old, repeat class students. It has been a few months since the school started. He can not finish his homework. He is often late for class and always bow to his own subject, without looking up for lectures. When I first spoke with a small language, he said that he volunteered to review it, but it did not matter to the result. I am persuasive, but no matter what I say, he will refute me with a very calm tone, a look through the world. Later, I found out he was using his cell phone to study lottery tickets while he was in school, and confidently told me that he could earn money by going to school and did not think he was wrong. Only communication is likely to have an impact, but I do not know yet