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对待孩子的错误,采取严肃认真的态度是为人父母所常用的方法。但有时巧借幽默的方式,也可以收到意想不到的效果。前苏联著名诗人米哈伊尔·斯维特诺夫有一天发现小儿子舒拉别出心裁地喝了半瓶墨水,但心里明白墨水不至于使人中毒,故一点都不惊慌。他还意识到这正是教育儿子的最好时机,于是,诗人轻松地问儿子:“你真的喝了墨水?”儿子舒拉得意地坐在那里,伸出被墨水染黑的舌头,做了个怪相。诗人一点不恼,从里屋拿出一叠吸墨水的纸来,对小儿子说:“现在没办法了,你只有把这些吸墨水的纸使劲嚼碎吞下去吧!”由此,一场虚惊就这样被诗人的一句幽默的话语冲淡。而舒拉原想以此成为家人的中心,结果未能如愿。此后,舒拉再也没有犯过类似出风头的错误。其实,孩子有时故意打破常规做出异常行为来表现自己,是希望引起他人的关注。此时,如果父母
To treat children’s mistakes, take a serious attitude is a common method for parents. But sometimes clever humorous way, you can also receive unexpected results. Former Soviet Union poet Mikhail Svetynov one day found the younger son Shura deliberately drank half a bottle of ink, but my heart knew that the ink is not toxic, so it is not panic at all. He also realized that this was the best time to educate his son, and the poet easily asked his son, “You really drank ink?” Sulla smiled proudly, sticking out the ink-dyed tongue and doing A strange phase. The poet did not annoy at all. He took out a stack of blotted water paper from the back room and said to the younger son, “Now I can not do anything. You only swallow these ink-absorbing papers swallow!” Thus, a false alarm This is a poet’s humorous words dilute. While Shura originally wanted to be the center of his family, the result failed to do so. Since then, Shura never made a similar blunder. In fact, children sometimes intentionally break the routine to behave abnormally to express themselves, is hoping to arouse the attention of others. At this point, if parents