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人之所以痛苦,就是认为自己都是对的,别人总是对不起我,将一切错误都归罪于别人和外境,念念都觉得自己没有错,而不会反省自身的过失。这就是我们痛苦的最大根源。要想解除痛苦,重要的是反省自己的过失,找别人的好处,像宽恕自己一样地宽恕别人。种子法则就是:你想拥有什么,就去帮助别人得到什么。自认怀才不遇的人,往往看不到别人的优秀;愤世嫉俗的人,往往看不到世界的美好。只有敢于低头并不断否定自己的人,才能够不断吸取教训,才会为别人的成功而欣喜,为自己的善解人意
The reason why people suffer is to think that they are all right. People always feel sorry for me and blame all mistakes on others and the outside world. They all think they are right and do not reflect on their own negligence. This is the greatest source of our suffering. To relieve the pain, it is important to reflect on your own negligence, find the good of others, and forgive others like you forgive yourself. The seed law is: what do you want to have to help others get what. People who think they never met, often do not see the excellence of others; cynics often do not see the beauty of the world. Only those who dare to bow their heads and constantly deny themselves can continue to learn the lesson before being delighted with the success of others and understanding for themselves