在咨询中,有个妈妈问我:“找你咨询的家长,是不是都是急性子?”说实话,我从来没有这样总结过。经她一提醒,我回忆了一下,保守估计,有80%的家长都是急性子。当然这只是感觉,并非严谨的统计数字。恰好另外一位家长发给我一个日志片段,佐证了这个论断:他首先写的是数学作业。当时我在洗衣服,他说要和我比赛看谁更快完成。这个过程中,感觉他不像我在身边时那么抓紧时间,经常愣着、抠鼻子。我没理他,过一会儿他又自觉地低头写。我想,以前都是见到他玩儿,我就催,这样锻炼不 In the consultation, a mother asked me: “to find your consulting parents, are not all acute? ” To be honest, I never summed up so. As reminded by her, I recall a moment, conservatively estimated that 80% of parents are acute. Of course, this is just feeling, not rigorous statistics. Just another father gave me a log fragment, corroborating this assertion: He first wrote math homework. I was doing my laundry at the time, and he said he wanted to play with me to see who finished faster. In this process, I feel like he is not so busy with my time as I am, often stunned, pick the nose. I ignored him, and after a while he consciously bowed down. I think I used to see him play before, I reminded, so do not exercise