生活中人们对性的谈论多少有所不同。有的讳莫如深,守口如瓶;有的毫无忌讳,一吐为快;有的偶尔为之,躲躲闪闪。多年前社会尚处于禁锢状态,公开谈性根本是不可能的,导致性盲颇多。而今随着改革开放,人们的文化层次逐步提高,关系到生殖健康和给人带来快乐的性不再被看作肮脏神秘之事。性知识广泛普及,谈性亦不被看作洪水猛兽,特别是一些已婚妇女,不再把性当作神秘之事,渴望谈自己的性感受,倾听他人的性经验,以提高性生活质量,已是司空见惯之事。当然,任何事情都应该有一个度,不应该从一个极端走向另一个极端。我们不反对谈性,但也不提倡无性不谈。那么,已婚妇女应该和谁谈性,谈多少为宜呢?首先,夫妻之间多谈性,同事之间少谈性。已婚妇女谈性的对象主要应该是 People in life talk about sex somewhat differently. Some secrecy, tight-lipped; some taboo, spit fast; some occasionally, dodge. Many years ago, the community was still in a state of imprisonment. It is simply impossible to talk about sex openly and it leads to many blind people. With the reform and opening up nowadays, people’s cultural level has been gradually raised, and the relationship between reproductive health and happiness has no longer been regarded as dirty mystery. Sexual knowledge is widely used, sex is not seen as a scourge, especially some married women, no longer regard sex as a mystery, eager to talk about their own sexy, listening to others’ sexual experience to improve the quality of sexual life, It is a commonplace thing. Of course, everything should have a degree, and should not go from one extreme to another. We do not oppose negotiation, but we do not advocate asexual discussion. Well, married women should talk to whom, should talk about how much? First of all, more talkative sex between husband and wife, less talkative between colleagues. Married women talk about the main object should be