不要因对方情绪激烈而躲避。诚恳地陪在他身边,让对方感觉到你尊重他。前男友最无法忍受我的,就是当我们冲突的时候,我会逃避,尽量躲开争执。如果躲不了,我会用很冷漠的态度,让对方感觉自已小题大做。我的方式让他觉得我不在乎他,无法跟我沟通,因为我否定他的感受。当面对一个人出现一些自己承受不了的情绪时,我本能的反应就是保持冷静,别让自己陷入别人的情绪旋涡。我当时并不知道自己的方式不妥当。后来发现还有其它常见的无效方式: Do not avoid each other because of intense emotions. Sincerely with him, let the other party feel you respect him. Most ex-boyfriend can not stand me, that is, when we are in conflict, I will evade, try to escape the dispute. If you can not hide, I will use a very indifferent attitude, so that each other feel their own fuss. My way makes him think I do not care about him, unable to communicate with me, because I deny his feelings. When faced with a person can not bear their own emotions, my instinctive reaction is to remain calm, do not let yourself plunge into the emotional whirlpool of others. I did not know my way at the time. Later found there are other common ways of invalidation: