我国现在的儿童大多是独生子女,他们本来缺兄弟姐妹间的交往,加上城市里公寓式住宅的局限,使他们又失去了左邻右舍间儿童的交往,客观原因使独生子女的活动空间缩小到家庭,极易变得孤僻、自私和自我中心,变得不会和不善交往。交往是发展儿童社会性的一个重要途径。儿童只有在与同伴、成人的友好交往中,才能学会在平等的基础 Most of the children in our country now have only one child, and they were originally lacking in brotherhood and siblings. Coupled with the limitations of apartment buildings in the cities, they have lost their children’s neighbors. The objective reasons are that the activities of only children Narrow to the family, easily become isolated, selfish and self-centered, become not friendly and poor. Communication is an important way to develop children’s sociality. Children can learn the basis of equality only in the friendly relations with their peers and adults