当同事和朋友们得知我父亲竟然就在父亲节那天意外溺亡时,他们简直不敢相信我第二天还在工作,而且早上还去游了泳,并没有守在家中悲伤落泪。他们说:“你被吓着了,还没意识过来。……悲痛还没袭来。……你在否认事实。”我并没有。这件事的确给我带来了打击,但更像是一个温暖的拥抱,而非一记重拳。得知这个消息时,我们正从我们钟爱的周 When my colleagues and friends learned that my dad was dying accidentally on Father’s Day, they could not believe I was still working the next day, swimming in the morning and weeping and crying at home. They said: “You were scared and you did not know it yet ... sadness has not struck yet ... you’re denying the fact.” I did not. It did hit me a bit, but it was more like a warm hug than a heavy punch. When we got this news, we were from our beloved week