一、忌自欺欺人。不成功的人在生活中总喜欢自己欺骗自己。如果一个人连对自己都谈不上诚实,那他在人生路上的进步就一点也别指望了。不敢如实承认自己现状的情况很多,包括自己在生活中究竟是什么样的处境,达到理想的目标的前景如何,自己有哪些不足等等。二、忌缺乏创造性。我? First, avoid self-deception. Unsuccessful people in life always like to deceive themselves. If one does not even speak to oneself honestly, his progress on the path of life is not to be expected at all. Not honestly admitting the status quo, including what kind of situation they are in their daily lives, the prospects for achieving their desired goals, their own shortcomings and so on. Second, avoid lack of creativity. I?