墨西哥作家、教育家奥克塔维奥·帕兹最近在展望八十年代的时候,谈到他对爱的看法如下: 人类史明的基础之一是对爱的认识。这不是指肉体之爱,也不仅仅指性爱,而是指对人们精神上的吸引。爱的概念建立在我们永远爱一个不朽的人物这样一个事实上面。这点同时给我们带来关于死亡的看法,即对待死亡的态度。被爱的人会死,爱人的人也会死;这个人 When Mexico’s writer and educator Octavio Paz, looking forward to the 1980s, talked about his views on love as follows: One of the foundations of human history is understanding of love. This does not mean the love of the flesh, nor does it mean just sex, but the mental attraction to people. The concept of love builds on the fact that we love an immortal forever. This at the same time gives us the idea of ​​death, that of treating death. The loved ones will die, the lover will die; this man