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“城外的人想着进去,城里的人想着出来”,这是钱钟书先生的小说《围城》为我们揭示的一种颇有人生感悟意义的社会现象。在婚姻“围城”的内外,痴男痴女们拿着自己的青春和幸福就像是进行一场交易,既充满了对未来美好生活的向往,又隐隐地怀着对未知前途的恐惧。然而不管怎样,“围城”现象以及其中所包含的人生命题却从未真正有效地阻止过人们对婚姻的向往和执着追求。进城前的经济分析现代社会的人们越来越理性了。所谓理性,就是指每个人都能
“People outside the city think about it and the people in the town think of it.” This is a social phenomenon that reveals the significance of life in the book Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu. In and out of the “encircling city” of marriage, idiot men and women, holding their own youth and happiness, are like making a deal that is full of longing for a better life in the future and faintly fears of an unknown future. However, the “siege” phenomenon and the life propositions it contained have never really effectively prevented people’s longing for and desire for marriage. People who are in modern society before entering the city are more and more rational. The so-called rational, it means that everyone can