两代人之间的争辩,对孩子来说,是走上成人之路的第一步,是寻求与父母沟通的另一种方式。我有一个14岁的儿子,今年上初二了。他与班里一个大款的儿子很要好,常常羡慕那个同学家很有钱,穿的是名牌,吃的是牛排,喝的是饮料,玩的是手机,他什么东西都敢买。一天,我妻子教育儿子说:“妈妈下岗,爸爸工资也不高,我们不能同有钱人家比。其实,有钱念不好书,将来一点用都没有。”儿子反驳说:“有钱有什么不好,你让我考大学、读博士,不也是为了找个好工作多挣钱吗?”如今,这孩子比以前顶嘴多了,不仅常和他妈妈顶嘴,有时连我的管教意见也 The argument between two generations, for children, is the first step on the path of becoming adult and another way of seeking to communicate with their parents. I have a 14-year-old son, the second day of this year. He is very good with his son, a wealthy man in his class. He often admires the classmate who is rich, wearing a brand name, steak, drink, cellphone, and what he dares to buy. One day my wife educated her son and said, “My mother is laid off. My father’s salary is not high. We can not compare with the rich. In fact, there is no money to read and no use in the future.” The son retorted: “Wealthy What is not good, you let me enter the university, doctoral, not just to find a good job to make more money? ”Nowadays, the child has more mouth than before, not only often talk to his mother, sometimes even my advice