在中国传统观念和特殊交际目的的驱使下,由于对礼貌用语的使用和对语言美的追求等现实原因,中国女性话语常常违反格赖斯会话合作原则中的某些准则。本文旨在探讨引起中国女性话语违反合作原则的具体原因,由此阐明合作原则的理想性与现实语境之间的冲突。 Driven by traditional Chinese concepts and special communicative purposes, Chinese women’s discourse often violates some of the criteria in the Grice Cooperative Principle because of the use of polite expressions and the pursuit of the beauty of language. The purpose of this article is to explore the specific reasons that lead to the violation of the principle of cooperation of Chinese female discourse and to clarify the conflict between the ideal and the realistic context of the cooperation principle.