作为一位学教育学的妈妈,大量阅读自我成长和教育的相关书籍后,我发现其实孩子是我们的老师,是孩子在教我们如何做好自己,如何与别人相处。因此,我们要尊重孩子。第一,尊重孩子的个性。每个孩子都是独特的,家长要尊重孩子的独特性。心理学认为,人有多血质、胆汁质、粘液质、抑郁质四种人格类型,每一种人格类型都有他的优势和劣势。不管孩子是什么样的气质特征,家长都要无条件地接纳孩子。第二,尊重并接纳孩子的情绪。每个人都有情绪,高兴、伤心、郁闷……情绪有积极和消极之分,但没有好坏之别。成人往往容易理解和接纳成人的消极情绪,却不太容易去接纳 As a learning pedagogy mom, after reading a lot of books on self-growth and education, I found that in fact the children are our teachers and children are teaching us how to be good and how to get along with others. Therefore, we must respect children. First, respect the child’s personality. Every child is unique and parents respect the child’s uniqueness. Psychology that people have more blood, bile quality, mucus quality, depressive quality four personality types, each personality type has his strengths and weaknesses. Regardless of the child’s temperament, parents accept children unconditionally. Second, respect and accept children’s emotions. Everyone has emotions, happy, sad, depressed ... Emotions have positive and negative points, but there is no difference between good and bad. Adults tend to understand and accept the negative emotions of adults, but not easy to accept