市场经济的发展,使少年儿童的自主、平等意识日渐觉醒,他们不但要求父母满足他们身体成长的需要;而且要求满足他们身心发展的精神需要。孩子们希望父母能对他们多一些理解、多一些尊重,多一些自由,使他们的身心愉悦。可惜一些家长却不了解孩子的这些内心要求。他们误认为只要满足孩子 The development of a market economy has enabled children and children to awaken their autonomy and equality awareness. They not only require parents to meet the needs of their physical development, but also demand that they meet the spiritual needs of their physical and mental development. Children hope their parents will understand them more, respect them more, be more free and make their physical and mental pleasure. Unfortunately, some parents do not understand these inner requirements of their children. They mistakenly believe that as long as children are satisfied