人生不仅要进取,还要舍得放弃。舍得放弃,其实是为了以后得到更好的机会。这不是一种消极的人生态度,恰好是一种可取的清醒的人生观。一个人只有知道自己能干什么,才能把有限的精力集中到真正的事业上。超出自己实际能力的大志、抱负,给人带来的不只是力不从心 Life must not only be aggressive, but also willing to give up. Reluctant to give up, in fact, in order to get a better chance later. This is not a negative attitude to life, it is just a desirable sober outlook on life. Only by knowing what one can do can one concentrate on the real cause. Ambition and ambition that go beyond their actual ability bring more than powerlessness