故事一A父母离休前,住在市里,每遇年节,姐妹兄弟都去聚餐,颇是红火热闹。那时老人们身体尚好,家务事于他们更是小菜一碟,加上手头宽裕,每次去,儿女们总是大包小包往回拉。某回,A跟我说,当了一辈子女干部的她妈,现在性格变了,变得温和而有涵养,凡事不再逞强。又让我猜测原因,见我猜不出,她神秘地说,她妈现在信佛,每天念经呢。 A story before her parents leave, live in the city, every year, sister and brother went to dinner, quite booming. At that time, the old people were in good health and the housework was more of a treat for them. With ample on-the-go shopping, the children always drew their bags back. Some time back, A told me that when her mother, a daughter-in-law for a lifetime, her personality has changed, she has become gentle and conserved, and she is no longer trying to be brave. Let me guess the reason, see I can not guess, she said mysteriously, her mother now believe in Buddhism, read it daily.