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“一日夫妻百日恩,吵架也是感情深”。随着生活节奏的加快,人心日益浮躁,夫妻吵架在家庭生活中不可避免,婚姻中的男女在家庭中的地位和角色的不同决定了每对夫妻相处的方式。在两个人意见不同的时候,如果一直委屈自己迁就对方,就会逐渐丧失自我,无形中也降低了自己在对方心目中的地位;如果固执己见根本不考虑对方的看法,那么又会伤害彼此的感情。人与人的感情需要交流,夫妻间更需要保持沟通。语言在这个时候不只是甜蜜一种味道,摆事实讲道理的过程中免不了会有争辩,吵架也就在所难免。如果不是爱,那么吵架只是家庭的“战争”;如果是为了爱,那么夫妻吵架就是一种沟通方式。
“One day a couple hundred days grace, quarrel is emotional deep ”. With the accelerating pace of life, people increasingly impetuous, quarrels between husband and wife in the family life is inevitable, the status of men and women in the family and the role of the different determines the way each couple get along. When the two people disagree, they will gradually lose themselves if they have been wronged by themselves, and they will also reduce their own position in the other’s eyes. If they persist in disregarding each other’s views, they will hurt each other feeling. The feelings of people need to communicate, but also need to maintain communication between husband and wife. Language at this time is not just a sweet taste, posing the truth in the process of inevitably there will be arguments, quarrels will inevitable. If not love, then quarrel is just the family “war ”; if it is for love, then quarrel between husband and wife is a way of communication.