嫁给他时,他38岁,离异。她小他10岁,在他们那个地方,一个女人28岁了还不结婚是不正常的,的确有些不正常,因为18岁那年,她在一场车祸中瘫痪了双腿。在这之前、她也谈过两次惊天动地的恋爱,却都失败了。她不再过高地估计爱情,甚至不再相信爱情。所以当朋友介绍他时,听说他人老实厚道,有一份稳定的工作,她便答应了。她想得很现实:他有稳定的收入,虽然不高,也可以保证她以后衣食无忧;人老实厚道一些,就不会跟她发脾气,就不会挑剔嫌弃她。 Married him, he was 38 years old, divorced. She was ten years old and in her place, it was not normal for a woman to be unmarried when she was 28 years old. It was not normal at 18 because she had paralyzed her legs in a car accident. Prior to this, she also talked about two earthshaking love, but failed. She no longer overestimated love, no longer believe in love. So when a friend introduced him, I heard that others were honest and kind and had a steady job. She agreed. She thought very realistic: he has a steady income, though not high, but also to ensure that she will be well-fed; people honest kind, they will not be angry with her, it will not pick up her.