我们能在市面上看到非常非常多的有关沟通交流的书,有研究学术理论的,有介绍沟通模型的,有介绍谈话技巧的,还有引申到演示、咨询、销售、谈判等等方面的。而这本书却不一样,它没有大而泛地去讲述对话的理论和细节,也没有给出很多实际生活中的解决办法,更没有去推出一种一劳永逸的办法。所以这本书对于大部分普通的我们,不是那么容易懂,很容易错过这本书的精华。还好,由于作者本身的名气与能力,以 We can see very, very many books on communication in the market, books on academic theories, introduction of communication models, introduction of talking skills, as well as presentation, consultation, sales, negotiation, etc. . The book is not the same. It does not give a broad and extensive introduction to the theory and details of the dialogue. It does not give many solutions in real life, nor does it provide a once and for all solution. So for most of us, this book is not so easy to understand, it is easy to miss the essence of this book. Fortunately, due to the author’s own fame and ability to