社交是一门学问,而每个人最初的社交知识是母亲或者家庭教给的。当时我们考虑要两个孩子的原因,是看到很多朋友的孩子都很自我,而我又特别喜欢小孩子,所以我们就要了两个大头孩子。当然这是在不违反国家的计划生育法前提下(我们还是守法的公民)。很多朋友教孩子要不吃亏,要争,而我还是沿袭了我父母或者我奶奶教给我 Social learning is a science, and each person’s initial social knowledge is taught by their mother or family. The reason we were thinking of having two children at the time was to see that many of our friends’ children are self-possessed. And I especially like children, so we have two big boys. Of course, this is without prejudice to the country’s family planning laws (we are law-abiding citizens). Many friends teach children to suffer or fight, and I followed my parents or my grandmother taught me