匿名:小时候非常不喜欢输,什么事都渴望有完美的开局。可是,又不知道自己的能力行不行,反正结果总是输。长大后好了许多。但由于一次挫折,又开始变得害怕,不敢尝试。怎样做才能摆脱这种心态呢?萧伯纳说,我做事十有八九是不成功的,所以我以十倍的努力去工作。显而易见,这话是指努力的次数多于不成功的次数。也就是说,失败再多,也要不停止努力。摆正心态很关键。第一,你要想想,世界上大概不存在没有经历过失败的人,那你不过是其中之一,有什么好怕的呢? Anonymous: When I was young, I did not like losing very much, and I was longing for a perfect start. However, do not know their ability to die, the result is always lost. A lot better after growing up. However, due to a setback, they began to become scared, afraid to try. What to do to get out of this mindset? Bernard Shaw said that I have not managed to do anything in one piece or another, so I worked hard ten times. Obviously, these words refer to the number of efforts that were more unsuccessful. In other words, fail more, we must not stop working. Straighten mentality is the key. First, you have to think about it. There are probably no other people in the world who have not experienced failure. You are just one of them. What scary are you?