一提到婚外恋,很多人就会想到性关系。但事实上,现实生活中,很多人考虑到自身条件、道德约束、家庭稳定等诸多因素,会把这种婚姻之外的感情需求限制在精神体验方面,于是精神婚外恋的现象变得普遍起来。精神婚外恋真的比有了性行为的婚外恋危害小吗?这种行为能够被原谅、被接受吗?人是兴趣复杂多变的高级动物,一辈子只对一种事物感兴趣很难,一辈子只爱一个人也很难,对伴侣之外的另一个人产生感情,正是人情感丰富、兴趣复杂多变的一种正常表现。现实生活中不少人都会遇到这种情况:虽然本身婚姻关系很美满,但因为工作或生活的原因,会跟某个异性接触密切。如果两人条件相当,彼此难免心存好感。言语上的互相抚慰和生活上的关心,满足了他们一天中相当长一段时间的情感需求,出于种种原因,可能就在道德的约束下发展起了 Mention of affair, many people will think of sexual relations. However, in reality, many people consider their own conditions, moral restraints, family stability and many other factors in real life, which limit their emotional needs beyond the spiritual experience. As a result, the phenomenon of extramarital affair has become commonplace. Mental extra-marital affairs is really less harmful than having extramarital affair with sexual behavior? Can such behavior be forgiven and accepted? Human beings are complicated and complex animals of high interest, it is hard to be interested in only one thing in a lifetime, It is also difficult for a person to have feelings for another person besides his partner, which is a normal manifestation of people’s rich feelings and complex and varied interests. Many people in real life will encounter this situation: although their own marriage is very happy, but because of work or life reasons, will be close to a heterosexual. If the two conditions are equal, each other is bound to feel good. Verbal comforts and concerns in life satisfy their emotional needs for a long period of time, which for various reasons may have developed under moral restraint