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妈妈,您知道吗?情感健康的孩子比一般孩子生活得更加快乐、幸福,更容易在将来取得事业的成功。因为健康的情感一方面会使孩子更好地适应千变万化的社会形势,一方面又能为孩子的智力水平得以超常发挥提供必要的保障。妈妈,下面我跟您讲一个小故事:上小学一年级的孟非偷了同桌同学10元钱。孟非的妈妈意识到这个问题很严重,她花费了几个小时来思考该怎样改掉孩子的错误。她首先想到了和您一样的教育方法——把孩子狠狠地打一顿,用“武力”征服他。可她意识到这样做会激起孩子逆反心理。最后她决定放弃“武力”,要让孩子自己去感觉偷别人东西会给人家带来怎样的伤害。孟非妈妈先是把儿子叫到身边,用温和的
Mum, did you know that an emotionally healthy child is happier and happier than an average child, and is more likely to succeed in business in the future? Because healthy emotions on the one hand will enable children to better adapt to the ever-changing social situation, on the one hand, it can provide the necessary protection for the child’s intellectual ability to play. Mom, let me tell you a little story: Mengfei, a freshman in primary school, stole 10 yuan of money from his classmate. Meng Fei’s mother realized the problem was serious, and she spent hours trying to figure out how to get rid of her child’s mistakes. She first came up with the same educational method as yours - smashing your child into a fierce battle and conquering him with “force.” But she realized that doing so would arouse the child’s rebelliousness. In the end she decided to give up “force”, let the children themselves to feel like stealing other people will bring what kind of harm. Meng Fei first called his son around, with mild