我的爷爷奶奶是上世纪三十年代出生的地地道道的农民,他们没读过书,不认识字,遭遇过饥荒,遇见过日本鬼子,最终走过了生活中的很多艰难困苦,看着6个儿女长大离开村落,而自己仍旧选择在农村安享晚年。我的爷爷奶奶是包办婚姻,据说农村当时都有个习俗,会通过计算相邻村庄适龄男女的生辰八字,来决定 My grandparents were peasants who were born in the 1930s. They did not read books, did not know the word, suffered famine, met the Japanese devils, and finally walked through many hardships and difficulties in life. They watched Six children grew up leaving the village while still choosing to enjoy their old age in the countryside. My grandparents are arranged marriages. It is said that there was a custom in rural areas at that time, which would be determined by calculating the birth horoscope of the age-appropriate men and women in the adjacent villages