【诉说】女儿上初中了,打怀她起,老公就说要散养,不做规划,不搞早教,不补课,不学技,甚至不给老师送礼。他的理由简单有力:没闲钱!我强烈反对,什么叫闲钱?给自己孩子的人生铺路,也叫闲钱?女儿出生后,父母从老家过来帮我一年。临走时,父亲吞吞吐吐地说想翻修一下老宅,老公没听见似的,生硬地岔开了话头。我马上明白了,他是怕父母向我们要钱。资助岳父母改善居住条件,在老公眼中也是闲钱,没有!看着父母离开的背影,想着老公的冷淡态度,我的心拔凉拔凉的。看上去很美满的生活,瓤里其实漏 [Complaint] daughter of junior high school, she hugged her husband said to be free-range, not planning, do not engage in early education, do not make up classes, do not learn skills, do not even give gifts to teachers. His reason is simple and powerful: no spare money! I strongly oppose what is idle money? To pave the way for their children’s life, also known as spare money? After the birth of her daughter, my parents came home from me for a year. Before leaving, my father said to want to renovate the old house, my husband did not hear it, bluntly distracted. I immediately understand that he is afraid of parents asking for money. To help her parents improve living conditions, her husband is also spare money, no! Look at the parents left the back, thinking her husband’s cold attitude, my heart pull cool and cool. Looks very happy life, I actually leak inside