人出生前和母亲连为一体,出生后虽在肉体上与母亲分离,但心理上与母亲还是一体化的。所谓长大成人,就是“我”与母亲逐渐心理分离的过程。先是有了我的感觉,后是知道了我的名字,3岁左右才知道了“我”。随着慢慢长大,与母亲越来越能心理分离,也就越来越分清了别人是别人,我是我。但是,有些人总也没能与母亲彻底心理分离,总也分不清别人是别人,我是我。于是,由分不清自己和母亲的界限,心理上与母亲保 Before the birth of a man and his mother as a whole, after birth, although separated physically from the mother, but psychologically integrated with the mother. The so-called grown-up, is “I ” and her mother gradually psychological separation process. First, I have the feeling, after knowing my name, about 3 years old to know “I ”. With the gradual growth, more and more with the mother’s psychological separation, it is more and more clear that others are others, I am me. However, some people always did not completely separated from their mother’s psychology, always tell others that others are, I am me. Thus, by the points can not tell the boundaries of themselves and their mothers psychologically and the mother Paul