穷追不舍是不允许的,而且是有害的。因为老是催逼他人也意味着对别人隐私的不尊重。对此,年轻人尤为敏感。如果父母对孩子催逼过紧的话,就会导致孩子为了求得安宁而用拙劣的借口搪塞您,盘问还会带来谎言。因此,在任何年龄、对于任何问题都应允许这样的回答:“现在我还不想谈这个问题。” It is not permissible to pursue a chase, and it is harmful. Because always pushing others also implies lack of respect for the privacy of others. In this regard, young people are particularly sensitive. If parents force their children too tight, it will lead to the children in order to seek peace with a mere excuse to prevaricate you, interrogation will bring lies. Therefore, at any age, the answer to any question should be allowed: “I do not want to talk about it now.”