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一位40岁出头的男士自述,他虽然从一个穷小子奋斗到某大公司的总经理,但是始终觉得自己做得还不够好,他要考虑公司的发展、员工的需求、要让妻儿过上富裕的生活、要让生活在农村没有医保的父母有生活保障、要帮助哥哥一家过上好日子……他一天到晚拼命工作,连和老婆过夫妻生活都没心情,一个月能和老婆“亲热”一次就算多的,夫妻间的交流也很少,现在夫妻矛盾很突出。类似这种外人看来很成功自己却几乎没有幸福和“性”福的男人,在来心理咨询的男性中比例越来越大。
A 40-year-old man recounts that although he struggled from a poor boy to the general manager of a large company, he always felt that he was not good enough. He wanted to consider the development of the company and the needs of his staff, On the rich life, let living in rural areas without health insurance for parents to live in security, to help a brother a good life ... ... he worked desperate day and night, and his wife married life no mood, a month to his wife “Intimacy ” Even once more, the interaction between husband and wife is also very small, and now the conflict between husband and wife is very prominent. A man like this outsider who seems to be very successful but has almost no happiness and “sex” blessing, the proportion of men in psychological counseling is growing.