每次和家长交流完孩子问题,几乎所有的家长像事先商量好了一样,都会加上一句:“老师,希望您以后多多表扬,多多鼓励他,这样他才会更有自信和兴趣。”做教师多年,深知家长的心思,在学校里只要发现学生有一点进步,马上会给予肯定。与家长反映问题时也是先表扬一通孩子,听得家长心花怒放之际,再指出孩子这段时间出现的问题,家长也会欣然接受。看似皆大欢喜,不过后面的结果却 Every time I talk to my parents about the child problem, almost all parents, like I had discussed in advance, add the following sentence: “Teacher, I hope you will give him a lot of encouragement later so that he will be more confident and interested.” "To be a teacher for many years, well aware of the parents mind, as long as the students found in school a little improvement, will be affirmed immediately. When parents and parents reflect the problem, they first praise a child. When parents hear their heart and soul go down, they will point out the problems their children have during this period of time. Parents will gladly accept it. Seemingly happy, but the result behind it