判断力是一种培养儿童自立性的能力。孩子们往往会在家长还来不及思考的情况下,就表明自己的选择,使家长感到手足无措。因此当家长向孩子提出只能用“肯定”或“否定”回答的问题时,必须作好接受其中任何一种回答的准备。如果家长不能接受某一种回答,就趁早别提这样的问题,以免影响孩子判断力的培养。 Judgment is a child’s ability to develop self-reliance. Children often show off their choices to make parents feel helpless when their parents have time to think. Therefore, when parents ask their children questions that can only be answered with “affirmative” or “negative”, they must be prepared to accept any of them. If parents can not accept a certain answer, as early as possible not to mention such a problem, so as not to affect the child’s ability to judge.