在日本坐电车,时间久了发现一个与国内不太相同的风俗,就是不能让座。日本的老年人和孕妇都不大希望自己成为受人瞩目的弱势群体,被照顾和谦让总会让人感到尴尬。有次与朋友一同乘车,上来了一位老人。这位老人的年纪实在是太大了,拄着拐杖,须发皆白,身体几乎驼成了90度,还不停地小声咳嗽。周围的人都无动于衷,我如坐针毡,又怕站起来惹人侧目,只好使劲拉了拉朋友的衣袖,问他怎么办。他想了想,说:“我们干脆装着要下车,给他让座吧。”于是老人走过来的时候,我们站起身,向他点头致意后走 Take the tram in Japan, a long time to find a not quite the same with the domestic customs, that is, can not make seat. Japan’s elderly and pregnant women are not very much hope that they will become the vulnerable groups attracted by attention, being taken care and humility will always make people feel embarrassed. There are times with friends ride, came up an old man. The age of the old man was too great. He was on crutches and his hair was white. His body was nearly 90 degrees and kept quietly coughing. People around me are indifferent, I sit needle and felt, afraid to stand up and stand out, had to pull the friend pull the sleeve and asked him how to do. He thought for a moment and said: “We just got to get off and give him a seat.” So when the old man came, we got up and nodded to him