每个家长都知道,孩子从小就需要家庭规则的约束,否则没办法教育,但是有多少家庭有适用于家长的规则呢?家长的行为不需要约束吗?这个问题家长似乎不用回答,因为家长是权威,但是家庭规则只针对孩子,孩子能服气吗?如果孩子不服气,那么家庭教育的效果是不是要打折扣?或许,这是家庭教育的一个盲点。国家一级编剧、“感动河南十佳母亲”之一的安克慧女士敏锐地察觉到了这个盲点,欣然接受孩子的质疑,给自己立规矩,家庭教育取得了可喜的成果。让我们来听听她的故 Every parent knows that children need to be bound by family rules or they can not educate themselves, but how many families have rules that apply to parents? Does parent behavior not require restraint? Parents do not seem to have to answer because parents are Authority, but the family rules only for children, children can serve? If the child is not convinced, then the effect of family education is not to be discounted? Perhaps this is a blind spot in family education. An Kehui, one of the screenwriters at the national level and one of the “Top Ten Mothers in Henan Province”, was acutely aware of this blind spot and was glad to accept the child’s questioning and to establish her own rules and family education with gratifying results. Let’s listen to her