家庭经济困难学生是现今高校一批特殊而敏感的存在,他们不仅承受巨大的经济困难,更多的是经济压力带来的诸如自卑、多疑、妒嫉、孤僻等心理贫困。这群特殊的经济困难学生往往自我封闭,与他人交往之中树起高高地围墙。作为一名高校教育者,一名与学生接触时间最长、关系最为紧密的辅导员,如何冲破二者之间筑起的高墙,是我们工作的重中之重。2013年9月,我进入江苏海事职业技术学院经济管理学院担任专业辅导员,至今已经四年的时间。期间,遇到的很 Families with economic difficulties are a group of special and sensitive colleges and universities that exist today. They not only suffer huge financial difficulties, but also more psychological poverty such as low self-esteem, suspiciousness, jealousy and withdrawn from economic pressures. This group of special economically disadvantaged students tend to be self-enclosed and establish a high fence among others. As a college educator, a counselor who has the longest contact time with his students and how to break the high wall between the two is a top priority of our work. In September 2013, I entered the School of Economics and Management of Jiangsu Maritime Polytechnic as a professional counselor, which has been for four years. During the encounter is very