操控是一种进退两难的运动,一旦你的取向被别人察觉,那么控制就很难起作用了。但是如果你能让对方主动进入你控制的范围,让他们以为自己占了优势或先机,你就可以很好地控制他了,但你必须有让他们投怀送抱的诱饵才行。如果你的陷阱足够诱人,对方的情绪和欲望就会剧烈躁动,会变得更加贪婪和愚蠢,从而陷入你的圈套。 Manipulation is a dilemma, and once your orientation is perceived by others, control is hard to come by. But if you allow each other to take the initiative into your control so they feel they have the advantage or the first chance, you have good control over him, but you have to let them embrace bait. If your trap is attractive enough, your partner’s emotions and desires will become violently agitated, become more greedy and stupid, and fall into your trap.