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如果家里遇到一些变故,如离婚、失业、去世等,孩子问起来,家长该怎样告诉他们,才能既不惊吓孩子,又能让他们理解呢?1不要隐瞒或歪曲事实。比如姥姥去世了,大人可能告诉宝宝,“姥姥到很远的地方玩去了。”宝宝会接着问:“姥姥怎么不带我去玩呢?”有的父母离异了,却骗孩子:“你妈妈死了。”过几天,妈妈又来看他了。这种情况下,家长不要隐瞒事实或歪曲真相。孩子有自己的理解力、判断力,时间一长,就会发现真相,到时就有一种上当受骗的感觉,不再轻易信任家长。
If the family encounters some changes, such as divorce, unemployment, death, etc., the child asks parents how to tell them that they can neither frighten their children nor make them understand it. 1 Do not hide or distort the truth. For example grandmother passed away, the adult may tell the baby, “The grandmother goes to the far place to play. ” The baby will then ask: “How grandmother did not take me to play? ” Some parents divorced, Child: “Your mother is dead. ” A few days later, my mother came to see him again. In this case, parents should not hide the facts or distort the truth. Children have their own understanding, judgment, over time, you will find the truth, there is a feeling of being deceived, no longer easily trust the parents.