自我包含真实自我与社会自我,唯有两个自我统一,个体才真正完整。弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫在小说《达洛卫夫人》中,通过对克拉丽莎这一人物形象的刻画,向读者展示一战后伦敦上层社会中个体真实自我缺失的状态。本文在对小说原文细致分析的基础上,借助人本主义心理学家艾里希·弗洛姆关于自我的理论,剖析克拉丽莎这一人物,展现中产阶级家庭妇女真实自我缺失的表现,并分析其原因。 Self contains the true self and social self, only two self-reunification, the individual is truly complete. Virginia Woolf, in his novel “Lady Dalloway,” portrays the character of Clarissa to show readers the status of individual real self-absence in London’s upper-class society after World War I. Based on the careful analysis of the original text of the novel, this article analyzes the character of Clarissa with the help of the humanistic psychologist Erich Fromm’s self-theory to show the real self-absence of middle-class family women. Analysis of the reasons.