与孩子沟通,要注意孩子没有明说出来的思想感情,要学会聆听和促使孩子说话。有的时候,出于自尊心或是别的一些原因,孩子并不愿意或认为没有必要用语言说出他们的思想感情,但他们又很想让父母明白他们的意图,这时,他们就会改用另一种表达方式对父母进行暗示。父亲可能并没有注意到,但细心的母亲一定可以发现孩子的这种微妙的变化,弄清孩子没有明说的思想感情,所需要的技巧是了解孩子隐藏在内心的思想感情的微小、微妙的线索,如同在阅读时注意字里行间的含意所需要的技巧一样。对孩子正处在苦恼时所表现出来的“坏的震动”要敏感。很多孩子在想要父母知道他们需要什么的时候, Communicate with the children, pay attention to the children did not say clearly the feelings of the feelings, we must learn to listen and encourage children to speak. Sometimes, out of self-esteem or other reasons, children are not willing or think it is not necessary to state their thoughts and feelings in words, but they also want parents to understand their intentions. At this moment, they will change Imply parents in another way. The father may not have noticed it, but the careful mother must have discovered this subtle change in the child, and made it clear that the child does not have a clear understanding of his or her thoughts and feelings. The trick needed is to understand the tiny, subtle clues of a child’s thoughts and feelings hidden in the heart , Just as you need to be aware of the meanings of lines in reading. Sensitive to the “bad vibes” the child is showing when in distress. When many children want their parents to know what they need,