中国人的情感表达一直都是含蓄的,不管是亲情友情还是爱情,并不会像竹筒倒豆子般痛快尽致,而是一定有着曲径通幽的婉约,仿佛一说出来,分量就轻了很多。我也不例外,那一年我去远方的城市工作。临别的前一个晚上,妈妈的话少了许多,默默地帮我收拾东西,常用药放在一个小药盒里,衣服放进一个包里,日用品放进另外一个包里。间或妈妈会停下手里的事儿,想起什么就嘱咐我一两句,比如记得吃早饭,常给她写信,交男朋友一定 Chinese emotional expression has always been subtle, whether it is affection friendship or love, and will not be as happy as bamboo, but must have a graceful pass, as if to say it, the weight is light a lot of. I am no exception, that year I went to work in a distant city. The night before leaving, my mother said a lot less, quietly help me pack things, commonly used drugs in a small medicine box, clothes into a bag, daily necessities into another bag. Between the mother or mother will stop things, remembered anything asked me a few words, such as remember to eat breakfast, often give her a letter, make a boyfriend must