在我们身边,常有一些父母羡慕别人的孩子、奚落自己的孩子:“真是笨死了!你看人家××多聪明、多厉害!”听到这话,孩子是啥滋味?世上的事物从来没有绝对,只有相对。笨鸟是可以先飞的,有些“笨”并没想象的那么可怕。反而是一些天生聪明的人,如果恃才傲物,从此不再努力,就会沦为平庸、碌碌无为,甚至误入歧途、害人害己,所谓“聪明反被聪明误”。(正反对 Around us, some parents often envy other children, ridiculed their children: “really stupid! You see people × × more clever, more powerful!” “When you hear this, what is the taste of children? The world Things have never been absolute, only relative. Stupid birds are the first to fly, some ”stupid “ did not imagine so terrible. On the contrary, some people who are born clever, if they cherish the arrogance and no longer work hard, will become banal, mediocre and even go astray and harm others and cause harm to their own people. The so-called ”cleverness is cleverly mistaken." (Opposition