有时,你需要的不是一个活生生的人,而只是一种工具。85后李松蔚,北大毕业,供职于清华大学,“知乎”心理咨询师大V,已回答百余问题,获近40万陌生人点赞,是内心有狂澜不露、外化谦谦的学者型君子。李松蔚曾在文章里提到弗洛姆的《爱的艺术》:“人们认为爱的问题是一个对象问题。我们的全部文化是以购买欲以及互利互换的观念为基础。现代人的幸福就是欣赏橱窗,用现金或分期付款的方式购买他力 Sometimes, what you need is not a living person, but just a tool. After 85, Li Songwei graduated from Peking University and worked for Tsinghua University. He is one of the counselors of Tsinghua University. He has answered over one hundred questions and has approached 400,000 strangers. This is because his heart is full of rage and humility Scholar-type gentleman. Li Songwei once mentioned Fromm’s ”art of love“ in the article: ”People think that the question of love is a matter of object, and all of our culture is based on the idea of ​​desire for purchase and mutual benefit and exchange. Is to appreciate the window, cash or installments to buy his power