为什么哭?孩子一哭,家长就六神无主了。“你倒是说呀,为什么哭?”有的家长硬逼着孩子回答。这时,孩子的感情异常冲动,痛苦与委屈、恼怒与悲伤强烈地交织在一起,大人的话根本听不进。结果,孩子越不说,家长越冒火,家长越发火,孩子哭得越厉害。退一步讲,即使错在孩子身上,家长在他哭着的时候做出处理,也是有害而无益的。因为,当孩子看到自己的乞求一次又一次化作泡影,大人对他 Why cry? Child cry, parents on the six gods and lords. “Do you mean, why cry?” Some parents forced the child to answer hard. At this moment, the child’s feelings are unusually impulsive, painful and unbearable, and the anger and sadness are strongly intertwined. The adults’ words are not heard at all. As a result, the more the child does not say that the more parents are angry, the parents are angry, the child cried more powerful. Step back and forth, even if the fault is on the child, it is harmful and unhelpful for the parents to deal with his crying. Because, when the children see their begging time and again turn into bubbles, adults to him