同事为孩子选择要报考的大学,范围圈定在本省之内。选来选去孩子总是不中意,我笑着给他建议:“让孩子自己挑,喜欢学什么,喜欢去哪儿,随他呗。”同事把眼一瞪:“那怎么行,绝对不能让他走远!你呀,让你女儿给你洗洗脚捶捶背,早早引导她学着孝顺。养儿防老,咱们都只有这么一个孩子,辛辛苦苦养大,一定要留在身边,等咱老了有照应!”我不禁愕然。父母竟然早早地就让孩子背上这么沉重的负担?不由得想起我家竹林子。那天下班回家,看到桌子上赫然放着一张铅笔画的 Colleagues choose the university for their children to apply, the scope delineated within the province. Choose to choose to always have children do not want to, I smiled and suggested to him: “Let the children pick their own, like to learn what, like to go where, chant with him.” Colleagues glared eyes: “ Absolutely can not let him go! You, let your daughter give you a wash your legs hammer hammer back, guide her to learn early filial piety. Raising children anti-aging, we only have such a child, hard to raise, must stay Around, wait for our old and have a look! ”I can not help but stunned. Parents actually let children back so heavy burden? Can not help but think of my bamboo house. Go home from get off work that day, impressively put a pencil drawing on the table